- Mar 25
- 3 min read
Updated: Mar 27
Welcome to “With Intention.” I am Ebony Belt, and I wear many hats! My journey through life has taught me to live intentionally and to approach all things with purpose. Everything I do is surrounded by my God-given purpose.
Who Am I?
Now that you know my name, let’s dive a little deeper. I am a Child of God, a lover of Jesus, a devoted wife, a proud mother of three incredible children aged 21, 14, and 3, and a passionate speaker. Parenting a toddler at 40 brings its own unique challenges and joys that make life interesting.
I lead Divine by Design Mentoring Co, a trauma-informed organization dedicated to mentoring youth in the DMV area. This program emerged from my life experiences, which have been filled with highs and lows that have shaped who I am. Every moment, whether joyful or sorrowful, has contributed to my growth and reaffirmed my commitment to walk in purpose.
The Call to Intentional Living
In a world where fast-paced routines often take over, living intentionally can be overlooked. To me, living with intention means making mindful choices. For instance, I realized that simple actions like practicing gratitude daily led to a measurable 25% increase in my overall happiness. Each decision, no matter how small, sets off a chain reaction that touches those around me.
By aligning my actions with my faith in God, I acknowledge that every day brings lessons and opportunities. Each breath entrusted to us is a call to live with purpose. Even mistakes serve a purpose; they are often our best teachers. I will often explore living intentionally, focusing on how each moment holds significance.
My Mission: Sharing the Journey
The aim of this blog is to take you along as I embrace life intentionally. I hope my experiences will inspire you to embark on your own path. Some of my posts will cover serious topics, while others might be lighter in tone. However, my main goal is to encourage you to find inspiration and hope in my stories.
Growth often flourishes in challenging moments. By sharing my journey, I aspire to create a community where we lift each other up and strive to be intentional in every aspect of life.
The Importance of Reflection
Reflecting on my journey, I see how crucial it is to regularly evaluate my life’s direction. Intentional living encourages this reflective practice. For example, assessing my relationships or work-life balance can reveal which connections nourish my soul.
Over the last year, I took time each month to assess my mental health and energy levels, finding that 70% of my emotional draining came from unfulfilling commitments. By making simple changes, I became more aligned with my purpose and experienced deeper fulfillment.
Embracing Imperfection
Navigating life as a parent has shown me the beauty in imperfection. Life rarely unfolds as planned, and that is okay. Each of my children brings a different lesson. From guiding my eldest through the transition into adulthood to learning the art of patience with my toddler, each interaction teaches me something new.
I’ve adopted a "progress, not perfection" mindset. By savoring the chaotic moments, I remind myself that growth often comes from life’s messiest days.
Finding Community
I am eager to connect with others on similar journeys. Community is essential for nurturing intentional living. I encourage you to seek out individuals who inspire and motivate you. These connections can be found through local events, online platforms, or social media.
Sharing experiences helps us learn from each other. In a supportive community, we celebrate victories and navigate challenges together, reinforcing our collective pursuit of purpose.
Practical Tips for Living Intentionally
To kickstart your journey of intentional living, consider these actionable tips:
Set Daily Intentions: Each morning, take a moment to define what you want to achieve. This simple act can enhance your productivity and emotional well-being.
Create a Vision Board: Visualize your goals. Include images and words that resonate with your aspirations, guiding you toward your purpose.
Reflect Regularly: Dedicate time each week to assess your progress. Adjust your goals to ensure alignment with your purpose.
Embracing the Journey Ahead
As we move forward on this path of intentional living, I am excited to share insights and experiences with you. Life is not merely about existing; it’s about thriving with purpose.
I invite you to join me in embracing every moment as a chance to grow and live intentionally. Together, let’s cultivate lives filled with hope, love, and purpose. Remember, even in uncertain times, you hold the power to shape a fulfilling life aligned with your vision.
Thank you for being part of this journey! I look forward to exploring the beauty of intentional living together.
With intention, Ebony